![]() ![]() ![]() Tara to kserw pws den prepei na gkriniazoume re…Īlla parolo pou panta prospathw na pisw ton eauto mou pws ta exw ola, olo kai kati mou lipei. eisai teleia pou xepernas ta provlimata sou moni sou re. prepei na agapas ton kosta tosoo poliii xxx :)) min vlepeis ton eauto sou san skata. einai teleio re pou apo moni sou kinigas ton pragmatiko sou eauto kai tin pragmatiki agapi. :) re nomizo niotheis skata giati epitelous anoigesai kai zitas pragmatiki agapi apo ton kosta ki ohi apla na se thaumazei. alla vgazei ligo noima etsi opos to diavasa auto They have to realize that they had to live to meet the longings and expectations of their parents at the cost of their true emotions and real n nomizo oti eisai narkistria. They have to mourn the loss of a childhood where they could be their true selves. The enormously difficult task for the narcissist is to find and accept their true selves – including their weaknesses, shortcomings and imperfections without feeling worthless and depressed. ![]() Narcissists can’t love without idealizing and they cannot express genuine human feelings without feeling shame. Nancy McWilliams says that narcissistic individuals sometimes solve the problem with their self-esteem by regarding someone (a friend, lover or mentor) as perfect and then feel they have value because of their relationship or identification with such a perfect person. They often have unrealistic ideals and either believe that they have attained them (feeling grandiose and superior) or feel that they have failed (feeling worthless and flawed). When they idealize themselves they tend to devalue others and when they idealize others they devalue themselves. Narcissistic people tend to idealize and devalue themselves and others. They do not acknowledge their need for others because dependency needs feel like a failure to them. They cannot show remorse, because acknowledging a failure exposes them to be seen as not perfect. When this suddenly fails he is left feeling worthless and depressed. The self-respect of the narcissist is dependent on his achievements and admiration of others. He never gets enough admiration, because admiration can never meet the need for real love. The narcissist cannot distinguish between admiration and love. Yet, the narcissistic individual senses that as long as it is his perfect qualities that are admired, he is not loved for who he really is. The narcissist cannot be real in a relationship because he cannot accept his human imperfections. There is very little room for a real, deep relationship when the main focus of the relationship is for the narcissist to feel admired. Alice Miller explains that the narcissistic person is fixated on gaining the admiration of his/her partner. The partner of a narcissistic individual is there to admire them. Rothstein says that the main job of the narcissist is to be perfect, to achieve approbation and to never be dependent or feel lacking in any way. kai niotho oti den se katalaveno apolitos giati gia mena den eisai pote to hontro ashimo hazo koritsaki pou kleei sti gonia…xuoxuox sagapao toosoo poli ki ego vlepo tosa polla se sena. giati tha borouse na min se theorei kanenas gamati alla ama o kostas se theorei simadiki kai sagapaei kai se lateuei tote auto tha prepe na ftanei :) kaii re to xero oti einai asteio alla opote vlepo tin mila giogovich ( den xero pos grafetai ) mou thimizei esena toso poli, oi ekfraseis tis…prepei na vreis kati na agapas ston eauto sou. kai na se kanoun na niotheis simantiki autoi pou se agapane. perpatao sto dromo sto londino kai vlepo padou ilithious asimantous anthropous pou vlepoun to x factor kai xernane sta pezodromia kai den ebathiazontai me tipota kai kanenan. nomizo oti den sou dinoun arketi agapi kai prosohi… episeis pisteuo oti eheis prospathisei para poil na niotheis mi simadiki ki ohi idieteri ki apla to kataferes. kai to xero oti gia kppoio logo den to niotheis. makari na katalavenes poso simadiki kai idieteri kai laberi eisai. ![]()
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